The Calling

A number of weeks ago I had been praying about what my calling was. What did Jesus have for me to do specifically? I knew He had created me for something, I knew there was something He had just for me to do, tailor made to fit my skin. But what was it?

One day I was sitting in my car and I very distinctly heard, “Called to ___________!”
“Lord, what?”
And He repeated it.
What? How?
And He repeated it.

I’ve heard it and pondered it often over the past weeks. I’ve thought about it, wondered how to do it. I even made a few attempts at it. But it all seemed to fall flat.


I thought that once I knew what I was supposed to do for Jesus, He would just take over and I’d do it all. I thought it would be easy, as easy as sitting down at the computer and blogging.

Easy-peasy, right?

Yeah. But not.

And why isn’t it? I am indwelt by the Holy Spirit, I have been sealed in Him with the Holy Spirit of Promise (Ephesian 1:13), He is my life ((John 14:6), I have died, been crucified with Him and the life I live isn’t lived by me, but Christ lives the life in me (Galatians 2:20). This should be easy.

But not.


You see, while that all is very true. We still have an enemy who desires nothing more than to kill, steal, and destroy (John 10:10). All too often we give in to him and deny the Holy Spirit free-reign in us.

When we know what we are called to do for Jesus, the enemy attacks with ferocity because we’ve moved from not even being a blip on his radar screen to being a mildly annoying pest to being a full-on threat. When the enemy feels threatened he goes after the threat.

To kill. To steal. And to destroy.

He puts up stop signs. He gets us to think the way we’re going is not the right way. We’re traveling the wrong way on a divided highway.  He will work to convince us we are on the wrong side, in the wrong lane. And he pulls out all the stops.

Or he’ll put up a stop light that is always red. With a stop sign once you stop if no one is coming you can go, but a stoplight, yeah you’re just stopped there until the light changes to green.  Only his lights are never green. Or yellow. Just red all the time.

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So we stop and we’re stuck there. Knowing what God has called us to do, but there’s this stop sign of the flesh.

Because we’re afraid. Afraid we heard wrong. Afraid we can’t. Afraid we have no ability. Afraid we’ll fail. Afraid everyone else can do it better. Afraid we don’t know how.

But our God’s name is not “Afraid”, it’s not even “I AM Afraid”. No! His name is simply, I AM.

I AM a very present help in times of trouble. (Psalm 46:1)

I AM your life. I AM your Way. I AM your Truth. (John 14:6)

I AM the God who calls you out of darkness. (1 Peter 2:9)

How does all of this relate to our calling?

He is our present reality. His Life in us makes us new and makes all things new. We don’t have to give in to fear. Yes, the road of our calling might be hard, difficult and we might fall down. But He is still our present reality.

We have to daily, or more often–as often as needed– submit ourselves to Him. When we submit we resist something. When we submit to Jesus we resist the devil. When we submit to something, we resist something else and the something else has to flee. When we submit to Him, we resist the devil and he must flee.

Our flesh and our fears can not stand in the presence of an Almighty, Holy God who’s name is I AM.

For this very purpose I raised you up to demonstrate My power in you, and that My Name might be proclaimed throughout the whole earth. Romans 9:17

We were raised up in Christ for a purpose! He wants to use us to demonstrate His power in us. We are called to proclaim His Name (I AM!) throughout the whole earth. If we’re still sitting at satan’s stop sign, we are not fulfilling His Holy calling on our lives!

And that, my dear friend, is nothing but a big pile of sin.


An Eternity of Agains.

Yesterday my youngest and I were on a lonely, deserted stretch of I-25 in northern Wyoming. If you know anything northern Wyoming geography you know that between Casper and Buffalo there is a whole lot of nothing. And that is right where we were when the storms hit us.


We’d been watching them build in the distance, and this storm loving woman was in her element, praying we’d run right into them.

And we did.

And I changed my mind very quickly when I started to hydroplane at 75mph and nearly lost control of Lucy. (Yes, I name my cars.) I looked out the window and could only see a wall of water the front tire was skimming off. And I knew we were in trouble.

We were heading south, the wind was fierce and blowing from the west. The water on the road was deep and rushing. It was almost like driving through a stream at flood stage.

Or maybe a river with whitecaps. The wind would push me one way, the water would push me the other.




It was scary. My body was trembling with the exertion of just trying to keep us on the road. I knew enough to reduce my speed and turn into the hydroplaning swerves and not fight against that.

At one point I was driving 50 mph in an 80 mph zone. The water was so deep on the road I was having trouble accelerating.

I know our life was spared yesterday.

I also know I want to hydroplane in the sweet grace of Jesus. I want to know in the marrow of my soul that He is, that He is good, and that He is in control of life, because He is my life.

Then I want to crash headlong into His throne and say, “Whooooaaaaa!!! Jesus! What a crazy, thrilling ride that was!!!”

And then I want to do it again. And again. And all over again.

For an eternity of agains.



God is no gentleman

Have you ever heard that saying? “God is a gentleman. He waits to be invited in. He doesn’t barge in where you don’t want Him.”

I’m convinced that statement is a lie. Yes, it’s true He does not force anyone to accept Him, so in that regard He is a gentleman. But I’m here to tell you, when you give Him your heart, He takes your life!


Just take a look at this:

“Looking for the blessed hope and the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Christ Jesus; who gave Himself for us that He might redeem us from every lawless deed and purify for Himself a people for His own possession, zealous for good works.” (Titus 2:13-14 nasb)

We are redeemed and purified, why? To be a people of His own possession! He fully possesses us! There is no part of our body, no part of our life He does not see and where He is not! Every place we want to hide from Him because we think it’s too evil, to beyond the scope of grace, to beyond the reach of His blood, He is there! He possesses those parts too.


The parts of ourselves that are hidden from us, the parts we aren’t even fully aware of are fully possessed by Him.

No, God’s no gentleman, but He is good. That is what we must realize and trust in. His very goodness. Because He isn’t a gentleman. He goes places we don’t want Him to go, He messes with things we don’t want Him to mess with, He changes things we don’t want changed.  Yes, we can resist Him and make futile attempts to thwart Him but guess what? He always wins.




So just give it up right here and right now. That fight you’re fighting? Just give it up. Give in to Him. Partner with Him to work in you, even in those hidden places. You can’t hide from Him. He possesses you fully.

Let’s unpack this verse a little more. It is such a treasure trove of Truth!

It is the grace of God that instructs us to deny ungodliness and worldly desires. It’s His grace! We can’t do it on our own. He does it through us and uses grace to teach us! It teaches us how to live sensibly, righteously, and godly in the present age. It points the way to the blessed hope and the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Christ Jesus. His grace points the way to Him!


And that is glory!

Jesus gave Himself for us to:

  • Redeem us from every lawless deed.
  • Purify for Himself a people for His own possession!
  • Possess us,
  • Make us zealous for good deeds.

This means we are:

  • Redeemed from every lawless deed and every violation of the law–wickedness. This means our old is gone (2 Corinthians 5:17) and our new is here. The old way was wicked and in constant violation of the law. Every intent of our heart was only evil all the time. But He redeemed us from that and He paid our penalty! We are no longer unwanted children, we are redeemed!  Camp on this for a pair of moments. He went to the slave auction of the enemy, and saw us there. We were over our head, drowning in a debt we couldn’t pay and He said, “I pick that one. I’m redeeming her.” He paid the price of our redemption. But He also paid the debt we owed that put us on that auction block in the first place! He paid our redemption and then He also paid the penalty, the debt we owed. Does anyone else want to shout, GLORY, or is it just me?
  • Purified. He not only redeemed our lawless ways but He purified us. He made us pure because He is pure. He didn’t just buy us from our old way of living, He stripped us and cleansed us completely! We are completely clean, undefiled before Him. We are no longer the bad girls (or boys!) we are purified as He is pure!
  • His own possession. He fully possesses us. There is no part of us that He does not possess–even those parts we try to hide because we think they are too wicked, to outside of grace for Him to see, too beyond the power and reach of His blood–He possesses those parts too. Even the parts we don’t know about ourselves, the parts hidden from our own eyes, He possesses them, because He redeemed and purified them.  We are completely clean before Him! We are completely His.
  • Zealous for good deeds. Our desire is to work for Him, not to pay for our redemption and purification because that just can’t be done and it’s a slap in God’s face when we try. Rather it is because of our redemption and purification, and being fully possessed by Him, that makes us want to work for Him. But it isn’t us working at all. It is Him working in and through us. He not only gives us the desire and the ability, He does the work. We just have to submit to Him.

Life is either a great adventure....Daybook!!


When you change tactics in prayer and move from a defensive position to an offensive one, things in the unseen world start to happen. Things change. Before there was no real threat and now there is.

And no one likes to be threatened.

Not even the enemy. Not even your own self and mind. When you declare yourself to be under new management and you kick out the old, this is threatening and brings on heavy artillery attacks.

Are you going to tuck tail and run or are you going to stand and fight? Are you going to take the coward’s way out and quit before you’ve tasted the thrill of victory? Jesus already won this battle against the enemy of your soul, so what are you going to do? Cower in the corner whimpering or come out fighting in the strength His grace provides?

The warrior never forgets the battle and she never quits the battle. When it’s the fiercest she arms herself with His strength and fiercely battles on.

Never in her own strength.

No, she battles on against her own strength because that is dead, weak, and powerless. But His strength infuses her with life and that life is inexhaustible because He is. 

So go ahead, rely fully on His life, His strength, and battle on, my warrior friend, battle on in Jesus.

Because everything you battle is already dead. It just doesn’t know it yet.  But you’re alive, you just don’t realize it yet. 

So kill those giants in Jesus name. Declare your heart, your life, your mind, your whole self, your husband, your children, your relationships, your friendships are under new management and then fight–battle on in the name and power of Jesus.

Strap on your helmet. It protects your mind with the true, deep-seated knowledge that you are His.

Put on the breastplate of His righteousness. It covers your heart, protecting it from false loves and keeps it intact–unbroken.

Step in to the girdle of truth. It squashes the lies so they are not allowed to take root and move to your heart and mind. This means they cannot be believed. Which means they cannot become a part of who you are, they are not your identity any longer. Throw them away.

Then slide your feet into your shoes of peace. His peace that passes all understanding. The peace that allows you to stand firm in Him though the battle rages all around you. You know true, lasting forever peace.

Now, stand firm. You are rooted and established in Him. Stand firm and see the salvation. Watch the deliverance of Jesus. Watch! See there, on the far horizon, now moving closer, now standing next to you, now surrounding you. That is your Deliverer and He is battling for you.

For you.

Yes, for You. Yes, you. He is battling for you.

So, Warrior, rest in Him. Stand firm and see the deliverance of the Lord.

Some days

Some days I really think I’m going crazy. And then I stop and think for a pair of moments and realize I no longer just think it, I am.

This journey I’m on is both exhilarating and exhausting. Soul-satisfying and soul sucking dry.  It’s like a walk in the park with a chocolate ice cream cone with a panther.  Who is hungry, ravenous really.  It’s as easy-as-pie and terrifying all at the same time.  It produces great trust and great fear.



I know God isn’t an oxymoron. I know it sounds like He is. Or like I am.  This journey is the absolute hardest thing I have ever attempted in my life to this moment.

Seventeen years ago today I was enormously fat. I mean. I’m 5’3″ and I weighed in at a whopping 175 pounds.   Of course in about 36 hours from right now, right this very second, I would be in labor with my first child.

I remember the agony, the pain. But I never wanted to quit. I didn’t want the pain to stop because I knew something good was coming and I wouldn’t be in torment forever. Soon my baby would be here and it would all be worth it.


Right now, my soul is contracting, and I’m in labor. Only I see no end in sight. No woman is pregnant forever. But this feels like it will go on forever. and ever. and ever. and ever.

I know it won’t end. In my heart I know that. I know it. But I don’t KNOW it. My head tells me it will never end, it’s best to just quit right now. Because it’s never getting better.

The dream I have? It will never happen. The mental pictures of completeness will never become reality. The deepest desire of my deepest heart, the deep-seated desire to passionately love Jesus with a passion that surpasses all other passions in my life, will never happen. He won’t give it to me.


I pray. Daily. Sometimes hourly, usually with greater frequency. But I doubt. I doubt He hears. I doubt His goodness. I doubt Him.

I. Freaking. Doubt. Him.

Him. The One who gave Himself for me so I could tell Him, “I doubt You. I doubt You love me. I doubt You. I doubt You want me. Everyone else in the world, except me.”

All the while I’m telling others, “He loves you so dearly!” “You are so dearly loved!” I’m telling others what my soul yearns to hear and doesn’t.




I’m not asking anyone to tell me. I’m asking my soul to believe it, even when (or even because) no one tells me. You see, if you just told me right now, “Girlfriend, you are so dearly loved!” I wouldn’t believe you. My mind would automatically reject the thought as untrue because “they’re only saying that because you put it on the blog. They don’t mean it.”

This is what happens when little unloved and unwanted abused girls grow up. They grow up believing they are always unloved and unwanted. They reject anyone who tries to tell them differently.  My soul so desperate to hear it and believe it, rejects what it needs most.


Which isn’t for man to tell it that it is loved. It is wanted.

No, what my soul needs most is simply Jesus.

Jesus. The One my soul craves, my life needs.

Like the helpless baby I gave birth to seventeen years ago, I cling to Him. Not because He’s helpless, but because I am.


All the Runners Run

Boy that is profound, isn’t it? All the runners run. Duh. That’s why they’re runners.


I’ve long been a runner. Not always physically, but I’m a runner nonetheless. All of my life I kept running. Running from the boogey man, from pain, from fears, from people, from love, from Jesus.

Almost ten years ago I also started running physically. What great bringing together of the inside and outside of my life. Run away on the inside, run away on the outside.


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I recently spent a glorious week in beautiful Blue Springs, Missouri. We used to always joke that Missouri was really spelling M-I-S-E-R-Y. This week was anything but misery.  I was attending a rather intensive retreat and Jesus exploded all over this woman.

By all over, I really mean All. Over. Completely.

My prayer going into the retreat was that Jesus would ruin me for life as normal. That I would  have zero desire to ever back to what my life had been like. He completely undid me!

I will never, ever forget my time there. I will never forget what He told me there. I will never forget the pictures He gave me.

I am ruined. Forever ruined by Him and for Him.

If you were to zoom in on my necklace in the picture above you would find the pendant is a stick figure of a runner. Very much indicative of my life to date. I wore it with happiness.

Happiness but not joy.

I had been home for a just a couple of days at the most when I was putting the necklace back on one morning when I heard Jesus speak to my soul.

That isn’t who you are any longer. Throw it away. 


I held it in my hands, looking at it. And again I heard Him speak,

That isn’t who you are any longer. Throw it away. 

My soul reacted with joyful abandonment. And I threw the necklace in the trash. I have been completely set free from my running from everything.



I still run. It just looks different now. Instead of running from, I run to. I run to Him. I run to life. I run to love. I run to joy. I run to friendships. I run and when I run I feel His pleasure.